Mallory Plotnik, now Mallory Wickham, is the wife of Christian singer-songwriter and worship leader Phil Wickham. The couple married in 2008, have four children, and celebrated 15 years of marriage in 2023 with a song Phil wrote just for her.
Mallory stays out of the spotlight, so many websites fill the gaps with guesses. On Scan Insider, we only report what Phil and credible outlets have confirmed, and we say clearly where the record is blank.
Key Takeaways
- Mallory married Phil Wickham in 2008, after about three and a half years of dating.
- They have four children: three daughters and a son.
- Phil released “Just Too Good” in November 2023 as a 15th-anniversary gift to her.
- The family has lived in the San Diego area, where Phil grew up.
- Her age, birth date, career and net worth have not been publicly confirmed.
Quick Facts About Mallory Plotnik
| Detail | Fact |
|---|---|
| Name | Mallory Wickham (née Plotnik) |
| Known for | Wife of singer Phil Wickham |
| Married | 2008 |
| Children | Four (three daughters, one son) |
| Home | San Diego area, California |
| Song written for her | “Just Too Good” (2023) |
| Birth date / age | Not publicly confirmed |
| Career | Not publicly documented |
Who Is Phil Wickham?
To understand Mallory’s public profile, it helps to know her husband’s. According to Wikipedia, Phil Wickham was born on April 5, 1984, and comes from San Diego, California. He has released albums including Cannons (2007), Living Hope (2018), Hymn of Heaven (2021) and I Believe (2023).
His song “This Is Amazing Grace” is certified Platinum by the RIAA, and CCM Magazine describes him as a two-time Grammy nominee.
How She Met Phil Wickham
Neither Phil nor Mallory has given a detailed public account of how they first met. Some websites say they met at a specific university, but none cite an interview or record, so we treat that as unverified.
What Phil has shared is the hesitation that came before the proposal. In a RELEVANT Magazine interview summarized by Movieguide, he said he loved Mallory “as a boyfriend, but I also was so scared of commitment.” They dated for about three and a half years while he waited for a clear sign.
The turning point came when a pastor friend asked him a series of questions, including “Would you trust her to be the mother of your kids?” Phil bought a ring the very next day.
Marriage and Wedding
Wikipedia states that Wickham married Mallory Plotnik in 2008. Their anniversary falls in early November: Phil marked 15 years of marriage in November 2023, and Movieguide noted in October 2026 that the couple was about to celebrate 18 years.
Wedding details such as the venue and guest list have never been made public. For more stories like theirs, visit our celebrity spouses section.
“Just Too Good”: An Anniversary Song
For their 15th anniversary, Phil surprised Mallory with a new song. CCM Magazine reported that he released “Just Too Good” as “a gift for his wife, Mallory, in honor of the couple’s 15th wedding anniversary.” He said, “This song is unique because it was written for my wife, Mallory,” and added, “So Mallory, HAPPY ANNIVERSARY! This one’s for you. I love you, and I’m so proud of you.”
Children
Phil and Mallory have four children, three daughters and a son, according to Movieguide. Wikipedia also says the couple was living in San Diego with their four children as of December 2023.
The children are minors, and the family rarely puts them in the spotlight, so we do not publish their ages, schools or other personal details. Profiles of adult children of celebrities live in our celebrity kids section instead.
What Is Not Confirmed About Mallory
Scan Insider checked the most common claims about her. None of these has a reliable source behind it:
- Age and birth date: no record or interview confirms them.
- Career: her job, past or present, is not publicly documented.
- Net worth: no credible estimate exists; Phil’s music income is not a measure of her personal wealth.
- Health rumors: we found no reliable report supporting online claims about a serious illness.
- Social media: we could not confirm an official public account in her name.
Life Today
Phil keeps touring and releasing music, while Mallory focuses on family life away from the stage. In a Crosswalk interview quoted by Movieguide, Phil described his hope for the future as being “80 years old next to my 77-year-old wife on the porch in a rocking chair,” still in love, with healthy children and grandchildren.
If you enjoy stories of long, low-key celebrity marriages, read about Kelly Anne Welbes Abagnale, married to Frank Abagnale Jr. since 1976, or Denika Kisty, wife of NBA guard Jason Williams. For relationships that ended, browse our celebrity exes coverage, starting with Stephanie Sarkisian.
In short, Mallory Plotnik is the private partner behind one of Christian music’s best-known voices, and Scan Insider will update this page if she ever shares more of her own story.
Frequently Asked Questions
Who is Phil Wickham married to?
Christian singer and worship leader Phil Wickham is married to Mallory Wickham, born Mallory Plotnik. The couple wed in 2008 and marked their 15th anniversary in November 2023, when Phil released the song “Just Too Good” for her. They have four children and have lived in the San Diego area.
How did Mallory Plotnik and Phil Wickham meet?
The couple has not publicly shared a detailed account of their first meeting. Phil has said they dated for about three and a half years before marrying, and that he hesitated because he was scared of commitment. Claims online that they met at a particular college are not supported by reliable sources.
Do Mallory Plotnik and Phil Wickham have kids?
Yes. Phil and Mallory Wickham have four children: three daughters and a son, according to a 2026 Movieguide report. Wikipedia also lists four children as of December 2023. The children are young, and the family keeps them largely out of the public eye, so we do not share further details.
What song did Phil Wickham write for his wife?
Phil Wickham wrote and released “Just Too Good” as a surprise gift for Mallory to celebrate their 15th wedding anniversary in November 2023. He told CCM Magazine that the song was unique because it was written for his wife, and he publicly wished her a happy anniversary when it came out.
Sources
- Phil Wickham – Wikipedia
- CCM Magazine (November 2023): Phil Wickham releases surprise song for his wife, “Just Too Good”
- Movieguide (October 2026): Phil Wickham opens up about his marriage
- Featured image: “Phil Wickham” by Gage Skidmore, CC BY 4.0, cropped, via Wikimedia Commons.
